What do 'relationships' mean to you? Is one more important than the other?
For me, a friendship is just as important than anything because it can either become a relationship within family bonds or a partner wise bond. Sometimes it feels like we're all friendless because things aren't what they were years ago or even weeks ago. It's something that changes with or without you, it's something that needs some love and care, yet understanding of being OK to agree to disagree ... well i think so. We all fight, cry or sometimes just shut people out to the point of there being no type of relationship (friend, family). We won't always agree on everything and that's ok - it's ok to have different opinions as long as it's not some degrading, shutting the other down or some sort of cruel thing. We all have a mind of our own, it's just sometimes more than others it's used by someone else instead of our own.
There are too many people in other's business/private life without that invitation of being told it's ok to sit down with them and listen or even so they tend to invest so much time in it and word gets out to those you may not associate with anymore, and then BAM it all ends, because sometimes things are better left either between just you or whom you're with. How else will things become better and solid if it's shared between everyone with it's supposed to be private? The help you could be seeking might not be keeping things between the two of you, so do be careful of what you're sharing because there will be an outcome of negative things you may or not be willing to take because it became a slip up.
We all have falling outs and not know the reason(s) behind it or someone else could be behind it, and you're just not going to fix the other end as long as they're still there. Don't let that happen when you feel like it's a solid and well positive bond between you and whomever it is, because all of that can end and when you want to fix it whenever the time comes, you will be debating wither or not to give it a go. If you're down for keeping a friend and/or partner and having it last longer than before. Sure 'nothing' lasts forever, but that forever could just be in the moment; the time you've shared and decided to invest in. For me that's the definition of forever, because it's what i want to make of it, whom i want to make it with in whatever relationship i decided to seek.
Things are what you make of them, just as life is how you make it for the better. It's alright to paint this picture, but don't think it's how reality is everywhere, because it's not due to it being different for everyone else you may come across. If you think of positive beauties, you will get it, and learn how to let all the bad fall out.
Keep growing, and keep learning. Make your own happiness and forever.
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